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Referral of a professional UFO/Alien Counselor for Abductees

Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 2:01 am
by ASL
I'm looking for counseling from a professional who is an expert in helping people who sense or know they have been abducted or had contact with aliens - would need someone who is non-judgmental and perhaps willing to counsel for free as I am currently in between jobs.

Kindly,


ASL

Re: Referral of a professional UFO/Alien Counselor for Abduc

Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 5:24 pm
by Bonnie Jean Mitchell
Hi ASL,
Welcome to the Alien Abduction Help forum. I am more than happy to help out for free. I am a life-long contactee who has had wonderful, friendly visits with the star people (the "aliens" that are like family to me -- pleiadians and orions) and I've also had many experiences with negative aliens and military abductions (MILABS). It all started when I was 4 years old and is still going strong. Please feel free to share your concerns here and ask any questions. This is a safe place where abductees help each other out.

Many Blessings, Bonnie :-)

Re: Referral of a professional UFO/Alien Counselor for Abduc

Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 11:51 pm
by ASL
Hi Bonnie,
Thank you for your warm welcome and willingness to help out.
Are you able to counsel via emails in private or do people have to reveal information on the online forum here?

Since you've had a lifelong and still ongoing experiences with both negative and positive alien contacts - I'm curious, what are their goals with abductees in general?

I can remember since I was 5 years old having out of body experiences on nightly basis - back then I thought they were my 'floating' dreams.
I also had extremely deep lucid dreams where I could change my dreams by will anytime I wanted to, just as if someone was changing channels on a TV.

At 10 years old I had my first day time conscious of out of body experiences. It was not until when I was about about 22 years old that I became aware of the Star People - I seemed to sense I could have been a Star Seed according to those self-tests in the books.

Then I forgot all about all the aliens and UFO topics for years.

Now in my 40's - suddenly I'm having intense flashbacks that are puzzling me.
I am suddenly remembering my nightmares I had when I was a child - remember lots of owls high up in tall bare trees with huge eyes all staring down at me. I felt in awe and yet disturbed somehow at the same time. One horrible nightmare I had was of wolves sneaking around my bedroom at night - again their hard eyes staring at me freaked me out. The fright was so deep that I could literally feel it deep down inside my core - that hard. Then I forgot about it again.

Last year, I was noticing a triangle scar on my right hand. Out of curiosity, I researched if other humans have the similar scars. Well, of course, you can imagine how shocked I was of the similar description of reading other confessions of "I don't know why I can't remember where I got that perfectly neat triangle scar on my right top wrist." It's the same with me, I remember almost all of my scars on my body and can tell long stories about them. But when people ask me "What happened to you that you got that triangle scar?" I'm at loss to explain. Then I got emotional, what the heck for, I have no idea, but I'm admitting it made me emotional and I am annoyed that I cannot pinpoint why I cried over a silly little triangle scar.

Another powerful incident when I was about 11 or 12 years old that happened in waking state (NOT a nightmare or dream - it really happened). I used to take my long hikes in the NJ pine forest for hours on regular basis. On my 4 1/2 acres of farm land, I arrived at the edge of my property and was about to crawl through the barb wires to enter inside the forest. Suddenly in front of me about 10 feet away was a huge beautiful female wolf seriously staring at me.

I froze and stared back not knowing what to do. Suddenly my body took over and I slowly unbent my body and stood upright.

She seemed to tell me telepathically 'Do not enter. I am hunting food for my babies. Stay away.'

I was very disappointed and tried to mentally argue. She firmly stared harder at me.
Dejected, I gave up and slowly turned around and started to walk away from the border.

In just a second later, when I looked back, there was no trace of the white wolf whatsoever.

I forgot about this incident until a few weeks later, at my parent's party, I caught my mother who was drunk that evening confessing to a friend of hers as they both peered at me from time to time - my mother saw the wolf approach me and she was frightened it would hurt me and was shocked it slunk away. She said I had an amazing ability communing with animals and (human) babies.

I respect others who had direct contact and lucid awareness. To me, I have no recollection at all if aliens have ever approached me in their 'natural form' (green, big head, almond eyes type) - I read there are many different types. So, one lady somewhere else thinks it was a screen - some form of hypnosis that aliens perform on humans to prevent shock? Aliens can disguise themselves as animals, abstract objects, etc?

I don't know. I don't have the answers, the hard proof - just an innocent true story and leave it as that is all I can offer.

Otherwise, other impacting experiences that are deeply ingrained in my psyche such as r once that I was sleeping soundly one night and suddenly a little grey figure about 12 inches long that looked like a biblical figure was staring at me. I thought I was dreaming but then realized I was actually wide awake in the dark and still could see this figure! Frightened out of my mind, I turned on the lights only to see the thing still there a foot away from my face. It wasn't friendly but it wasn't necessarily hostile.

As cliche this may sound - I used to have those geometric dreams as well when I was younger. The older I got, the less my dreams, intuition skills and/or awareness occurred as life distracted me and many people tried to talk me out of it.

I personally and emotionally don't necessarily feel I have a real connection with them - because I don't get any conscious channeling of them or things of that nature.
I actually hate the idea of outer space - I am very earth bound, love the earth, love the soil and the ground that I walk on and I'm staying put. Ironically, I get space headed a lot and that annoys the hell out of me and I remember having to work very hard to stay inside my body.

I guess I'm wondering how does one go about making sure I'm not hallucinating and if I did have some sort of contact with them.... I'd hate to make a spectacle out of myself. However, it seems important to me because it's been nagging my subconscious far too long. It's now time to talk things over with others who know what we're dealing with.

If I ever find the drawings I made of the owls in the trees dream - I'll try to scan it and post it up here if this program allows it.

Pardon for the lengthy reply, I didn't expect so much to come forth like this, but it felt important to share the main highlights of my deepest impressions that I cannot shake off.

I had to laugh out loud when I read one other topic in your forum mentioning to avoid TV. I too HATE the TV - people cannot understand why I never have a TV or cable. I only watch movies that I select from libraries, etc. As far as get up and DO whatever inspires us - after years and years of evading my secret dream, I finally moved to sunny Colorado. I moved somewhat a bit further away from the Rockies, but it was the only cheapest spot I could find for now. However, I am finally living my dream and it's been sweet. I hope to eventually move closer to the mountains to be away from city lights so I can star gaze anytime I want to.

Kindly,

ASL


Re: Referral of a professional UFO/Alien Counselor for Abduc

Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 3:03 pm
by Tess
Dear ASL,
For yrs i to thought i was hallucinating even went to a psychiatrist who put me on medication which i still take.
They did not stop the 'Hallucinations' but they did give me a heart attack some wks ago.
Anyway i am not surprised as my health has been declining ever since i had the flashbacks,if you feel like it you can read my older posts.
Thanks to Bonny and others who have helped me i have come to realize that i am not alone in what i am experiencing.
Since the flashbacks i can feel some thing under my skin behind my left ear,perhaps it is nothing,also i had been wearing a pair of studs for over 15 yrs,one find day i woke up with out them and never saw them since.
You are brave to want to talk about your experience but pls do be careful ,few would understand,most of us are on this site for exactly this reason ,we sort of find that no one will say we are crazy,or making things up,no one will laugh behind our backs.
I never believed in Aliens,abductions etc until it happened to me.
Take care every one,lots of love Tess

Re: Referral of a professional UFO/Alien Counselor for Abduc

Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 4:21 pm
by ASL
Thanks, Tess, for your response, sharing of your experiences and alerts.
Yes, it was why I posted here to see if other abductees knew of an empathetic, healthy professional counselor. If there is none, so be it.

In strength,

ASL

Re: Referral of a professional UFO/Alien Counselor for Abduc

Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2010 7:06 pm
by Bonnie Jean Mitchell
Hello ASL,
Sometimes it takes me a while to reply - sorry about that. I hope you are doing well. I usually correspond with people via the forum. None of us are strangers to the things that can happen during alien abduction or MILABs. If you feel comfortable enough, please post anything you need to discuss, you do not need to reveal your identity.

Negative alien beings, as well as the secret world government (the elites who run the world), conduct abductions to: perform medical experiments, carry out genetic manipulation, create hybrid children, disseminate a message of worldwide destruction (jarring images of the planet being destroyed by pollution, corruption, warfare, natural disaster), retrieve information about the positive star people from contactees.

Positive alien beings (the star people) teach love, empathy, and how to face one's fear. They promote spiritual enlightenment and help certain individuals, those who are ready, to move from the 3rd to the 4th dimension (which is coming up shortly for those who are waking up now). Most of the visits with the star people are about learning, but some also include medical exams and the creation of hybrid children.

There are different types of aliens/star people and some fall in (what I would call) the neutral category. These types usually just visit briefly to observe and take the occasional skin sample back to their lab.

Friend, I read your story and I can see that it is time for you to wake up. That's why you are remembering all your dreams from the past. The owls are messengers usually associated with the star people. Wolves lurking around your bedroom can also be a screen memory of the star people or aliens.

I also have a triangle scar on my top right wrist. I've had it for about 22 years (it was a scar left there by the star people). You get emotional when people ask you about it because deep in your mind you have that information trying to push its way out. You have got to let it come out now, it's okay. I can see you are already figuring this out, you already know what the answers are. Try to relax and just let go.

What a magical moment you had with the white wolf. Yes, from the sound of it, it could have been a screen memory, but certainly a friendly one. I have seen the star people look like dogs before. I think that sometimes we create screen memories in our own minds to cover up something we weren't quite ready for, but I'm sure the star people/aliens have the capability to put screen memories in our minds as well.

To tell you the truth, I'm really not sure if the star people come from the stars in a physical sense or not. They seem to be coming from another plane or dimension. In a typical abduction experience, there is usually a flash of light and a brief paralysis while the etheric body leaves the physical body and the vibrational frequencies try to find a happy medium. From what the star people have said to me, visitations take place on the etheric plane, not the physical.

It is sooooo time for you to let this all come out. You are not hallucinating. And you are not alone my friend. You are one of the fortunate people who are waking up to their true selves and the true nature of this reality. It is a fake matrix, all a lie. If you focus on being happy and keeping love in your heart, you will be just fine.

Many Blessings, Bonnie :D