Sapa,
Yes, it seems the paralysis comes on as we transition from our physical bodies to an out-of-body state. I call it the "transitional phase." My star friends have told me that when they visit, they work with a person's etheric body (similar to astral). Basically, the "aliens" or "star people" can pull us right out of our physical bodies, but if we focus we will still retain our alert level of consciousness. All levels of the self are real, including the out-of-body levels.
Tess,
It seems that what is really affected by the night light is our state of mind. We are usually more comfortable with a light on because our eyes can see what is there...of course, there are flows of energy always present that our physical eyes cannot focus on. The real trick is to overcome fear of the dark, but a night light helps us get there.
When someone wants to contact the star people, I always tell them to go into a small, dark room and speak their mind. The star people will hear. Sometimes it is to tell the bad aliens to go away and never return and then sometimes it is to bring a heartfelt message to the star people we love. Either way, the vibration of your words goes out into the world and is felt. So, the dark can also be a friend by helping us concentrate and focus our minds.
Many Blessings, Bonnie
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